Done with the apps?Let me introduce you.
I'm May, and I've been a matchmaker since 2009. Joining my network is free for women. Tell me a little about yourself, then book a free 30‑minute video call with me.
About 2 minutes. Nothing to pay.
How it works
Tell me about you
A few quick questions about you and what you want. It takes about two minutes.
Talk with me on video
Pick a time for a free 30‑minute Zoom call. The earliest slot is tomorrow, so I have time to read your answers first.
Meet the men I choose for you
When I meet a man I think you'll like, I send you his photos and a short bio. If you both say yes, I set up the date, down to the reservation. Afterwards, I ask how it went.
Hi, I'm May
At 30 I was single. I had a career I loved and a full life, and I still hadn't met the right person. I tried a dating service and hated it. I knew I could do better. So in 2009, after 11 years in corporate America, I quit my job and started my own matchmaking agency.
I'm certified by the Matchmaking Institute and a member of the Matchmakers Alliance. I also host a dating podcast.
I work with singles across the U.S., and our first call is on video, so it doesn't matter where you live. And I answer my own phone. You'll be talking to me.
“Love isn't one-size-fits-all. It's shaped by culture, upbringing, and shared values.”
What it costs you
Nothing.
Joining my network is free for women, and so is every introduction. The men pay for my service.
A few women each year hire me as private clients. That's a separate conversation, and it only happens if you ask for it.
The men I work with
Every man I introduce you to has hired a matchmaker to find a partner. That's a big step, and it tells you he's serious. Most are between 35 and 65, settled in their careers and ready for a committed relationship.
Some introductions come from my own clients, and I get to know each of them before I introduce anyone. Others come through matchmakers I partner with across the U.S., so you're not limited to one list.
You always see his photos and bio first. Nothing happens unless you say yes.
Your privacy
Your profile is never public. It isn't posted on any website, and it isn't sold. When I think a man could be right for you, he (or his matchmaker) sees your first name, age, city, photos and a short description of you. Your last name, phone number, email and social media go to him only after you say yes.
You can ask me to delete your information at any time. Just email may@matchmakermay.com.
Questions women ask me
Is it really free?
Yes, completely. The men are my paying clients, so there's nothing for you to pay.
Do I need to be Asian to join?
No. Women of every background are welcome. Many of the men I work with are looking for an Asian partner, and others are not. I also work with matchmakers across the U.S., so my introductions aren't limited to my own clients. On our call, I'll be honest about how I can help you.
What happens on the video call?
We talk for 30 minutes on Zoom. I'll ask about you and the kind of man you want to meet, and you can ask me anything. It's a relaxed conversation. If I don't think I'm the right matchmaker for you, I'll tell you.
What happens after the call?
When you're a good match for one of the men I'm working with, I send you his photos and bio by email or text. The decision is yours. If you're both interested, I arrange the date. Afterwards I ask you both how it went. If you both want to keep seeing each other, I share your contact details. If not, what you tell me helps me pick the next introduction.
Am I guaranteed an introduction?
No. I introduce you when one of the men I'm working with fits what you want, and I can't promise how soon that will be. If I don't have a match for you right away, I won't fill your inbox. The more open you are, the more often you'll hear from me.
What photos should I send?
Just one recent photo with the form, so I can picture you before we talk. If we work together, I'll ask for a few more: a headshot, a full-length photo and one of you dressed for a first date. No hats or sunglasses.
Where do you work?
All over the U.S. Introductions are easiest if you live near a major city. I work in New York, Los Angeles, the San Francisco Bay Area, Dallas, Chicago, South Florida, Scottsdale and more.
Can I become a paying client?
Yes. Each year I work with a few women who want to take the driver's seat in their search. Call me at (310) 867-0851 to ask about it.
Book your free call
Two quick steps: a few questions, then a time that suits you. It's free for women.
